As a husband that has been deeply hurt by his wife of 19 years. The first10 chapters were hard to hear. For a victim this book will help you to see & understand why your wife stepped out of the marriage.
As for the wife having the affair. This book is helpful for you. The writer gives many true stories of women in your shoes. Which will help you to realize that you are not alone in your feelings. The book does & does not justify your actions. There are many good points that can help repair your marriage before you step out. There are many tips to help repair & save your marriage after being caught.
I ask you ladies as a victim please walk away from your affairs don’t even start. Even though this book may help save your marriage. I believe you will never fully repair the marriage to the purity it once was. There will always be that blemish of a broken trust.
I was not blameless in my wife’s affair. I accept my failures has a husband. I’ve never stepped out of our marriage. Still I was not perfect either.
Sorry so long.
E.R.P.