The KELLY knows what she wants and holds until until she gets it. She had to overcome her feelings of betrayal to finally trust she had always been right. she held on to her most precious assist until she knew she had it right.
the IAN was clueless when it came to the emotions of the otherside of the relationship. he thought himself into what he guessed was right without considering the intangible loss that could have plagued him forever.
in the end they figure it out.